I love that our relationship is pretty much the same even after so long and after so much drama

I guess it’s about time to share my testimony. There are things in here which I have always been too scared to share with everyone because I hate admitting my weakness but I know I need to.

Having grown up in a Christian family, I have had the privilege to grow up in the church. I accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my savior at the age of 7 but have only recently come to understand what that really means. I spent my life simply going through the motions and following in the footsteps of my siblings. I am blessed to be able to say that I am now beginning to understand what it truly means to be a Christian.
In the past church was just somewhere I went on the weekends and I didn’t have a real relationship with God. I knew all of the stories and memorized the bible verses but never did much more than that. I prayed every night, before every meal, and when things were going wrong but that was it. When things were going right I completely forgot about God and put Him on the back burner.
In middle school I thought I was a good Christian because I did everything I was supposed to but I now know I was simply going through the motions. I attended church every week and I even got baptized. On the surface I might have seemed like the “perfect Christian” but I wasn’t. These were the years when I began to fight with my parents. I would constantly argue with my parents and talk back to them. I had almost no respect for them and couldn’t wait to get out of the house. There were even a couple times where I ran out of the house and refused to go home. Whenever we would get into an argument I always felt like nobody understood what I was going through; I felt like there was nobody I could talk to.
My first two years of high school were the hardest years of my life. The arguments with my parents became worse and more frequent. Not only did my relationship with my parents begin to fail, my friendships also began to crumble. I felt as if the whole world had turned on me. Every night I would wonder how I could change myself to be better, to be accepted. I began to curse and do anything that was considered “cool.” There was almost nothing I wouldn’t do to be accepted. I was no longer that innocent little girl with the good morals; I was now the girl who was dying to be accepted.
I was a girl who looked perfectly happy on the outside but was dead and depressed on the inside. I remember contemplating suicide and crying myself to sleep every night. I hated going to church because I felt so alone. I felt as if nobody at church liked me and I hated feeling like an outsider at a church I had grown up in, a church that once felt like a second home to me. I felt as if God had completely abandoned me. I always heard that God was the comforter but at the time I didn’t feel very comforted, especially by the people at church. One Friday night before my parents went to church my mom came into my room and asked me what was wrong because I was crying. I told her what had been going on in my life recently and how I didn’t want to go to church anymore. I had never told anyone how I felt and I felt like a burden was lifted after I told her. The following Sunday a family friend from church gave me a box of chocolates along with a note that read, “Smile! God loves you always no matter what!”
This note, although it didn’t seem like much, is what led me back to God. Throughout those difficult years I felt completely abandoned and lost my faith in God. After reading the note and talking with my parents, I was reminded that God never gives up on anyone no matter what. I began to do devotions again and I would read the bible and pray with my parents every night before bed. My faith in God began to grow stronger and I started to rely on Him when I felt lonely.
Although I never knew why God would make me go through those circumstances, I always heard that God has a reason for everything He does and now I understand that. Those years, although extremely difficult, brought me closer to my parents and to God. If I hadn’t had that experience my relationship with my parents wouldn’t be the same. Although it was a hard couple of years, I now understand why God put me through it. I am now stronger in my faith than every because I know I can rely on Him for everything.
Throughout the years, God has placed numerous people in my life who help me with my faith. Whenever I am feeling down or lost I receive bible verses or text messages from friends telling me that they are praying for me. I know it is God who is working through those people. Every day I earnestly seek after Him and try to be more like Him. I am not perfect nor will I ever be. I stumble in my walk just as much as anyone else but I know He will always help me find my way back. With Him I know I will never be alone no matter what may happen.

Confused and lost.

Recently I’ve been so confused and I’m not sure what to do anymore. I don’t know if I want to go to retreat or church for that matter. What’s the point? It’s not like I’ve been getting anything out of it.

I feel like I only go to keep up my image. I’ve grown up in the church and now I’m a leader so I’m obligated to go, right? And what will the parents say when “Dominic and Renae’s daughter” stops going to church?

For the past 3 years I’ve hated going to church. Even though I’ve grown up there and it used to be my second home, I don’t feel comfortable there. I feel like I’m constantly being judged and I feel so alone. When I go to youth group I only talk to the older leaders because or the guys because I feel like an outcast… Why go somewhere where I feel so unwelcomed? What type of “family” is this? I hate the way things are now and I feel so alone. I feel like all of my friends are so far away now and that I have nobody left, but I guess that’s just how things were meant to be.

I feel like there’s no point in going to church. Not only do I feel like an outcast, I feel like I’m not learning any more than I would if I were to read the bible on my own. It’s not that I hate God or don’t believe anymore, it’s that I hate the environment.

So I guess all I have to decide now is whether or not I want to go to retreat. I want to because I want to start to learn more but I don’t want to because I feel like I won’t get anything out of it except for more discomfort…

Teen Camp 2013: Kingdom Seekers

This was one of the best weeks of my life. I never thought I would meet so many amazing people who are so in love with God. These people made me realize that I haven’t been growing like I should but I want to start strengthening my relationship with Him.

This week we learned that we are to seek His kingdom first and not our own. I have always tried to make decisions on my own and I follow my own plan but I now know that I NEED to let go and let God take control over my future and my life. It’s going to be hard, but I know God will help me and lead me.

I’ve made so many new friends this week and they’ve impacted me in such a large way. I know they’ll be there for me when I need them and I know I can count on them to keep me accountable. I don’t want friends who hinder me from loving God, I want friends who ENCOURAGE me to do so and I found those friends this week.

Every sunrise and sunset reminds me of you but I don’t remember the good times anymore, I only remember the bad

I love doing little things to make someone else’s day just a lite bit better

I am so stressed… I don’t even have time to sleep between school, work, taekwondo, ACT and AP studying… I’ve been drinking coffee pretty much every day…

I miss having you by my side but it’s time to move on with life

You’re a grown man. Act like it.

You act like the children I teach at kumon and taekwondo. I understand you think you’re amazing at everything but you need to stop being so arrogant. You’re not always right and you’re not allowed to teach; only black belts are allowed to teach.

I don’t need you to harass me and creep on me. You are more immature than the other kids. When you’re wrong, just admit it. When you’re mad, don’t take it out on me. There’s no reason to call me stupid and bring up my ACT scores. I know I’m not the smartest but you don’t need to constantly remind me of that whenever you get upset.